Jacob Sova, mentee, the dude riding a longboard with a briefcase. Words cannot describe this man who has a soul so genuine and kind that it is impossible to not like him. My mentee keeps me humble, makes sense of struggles, and helps me remain sane. Jacob is a man of character, dignity, loyalty, and honesty. Every time I see Jacob I instantly get a huge smile across my face because I know he is just as excited to see me as I am to see him. Being a mentor to Jacob is one of God’s greatest blessings in my life, and I wouldn’t change my mentee for anything else in this world.
Jacob and I both value our education and involvements, so it has been difficult to make our schedules work together, but we always manage to do so. It may just be as simple as eating dinner in Robby cafe together once every blue moon, but we stay in each others’ lives and let one another know that we can always be there in a heartbeat if we need it. Our relationship is very healthy and positive, which is what one could only dream of having in a mentor/mentee relationship. Nothing makes me happier than hearing from other LAS students “your mentee is THE best!” or “Jacob Sova has a heart of gold and you are so lucky!” He makes me such a proud mentor, and even though I am not constantly there everyday to see him, his phone calls and text message updates will always make me smile.
Being a mentor to someone is a lot of pressure, because you are essentially their role model and go-to person for everything in the beginning of their college career. I did not have a really good mentoring experience, for reasons of just not clicking with one another and schedules being too busy. I always make sure to make time for Jacob when he needs it, and I know it is hard for him to admit he needs help sometimes so I do my best at reaching out and seeing him when I think he might need it. If you ever have the chance to meet Jacob Sova, take it. I promise you won’t regret it, because I know my life has changed for the better due to having him in it.